Theodore Harman was born January 29, 1836 to George Harman and Mary Ann (Steinmetz) Harman of Pennsylvania. On February 2, 1862, he married Louisa Moyer. Only a few months later, on October 11, 1862, Theodore Harmon enlisted in the 153rd Pennsylvania Infantry as a sergeant in company I. His brother, Peter, also served in the same regiment in company A.
Theodore Harman’s Entrepreneurship

Theodore Harman wrote his first letters to his wife while at camp at Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, before the regiment was formally mustered into service. His first letter in our collection was written on September 29, 1862 and gave a very brief summary of camp life.
“And now I will let you know a little about our soldiering that we have. We sit in the tents but [it] is so very hot we hardly can stand it. And some is a writing and some is a looking and some a sleeping and some a reading & some a praying & so they are all busy. And now I will let you know a little about our grub. We get pork, beef, beans, & rice, very good bread & crackers, coffee as much as we want. We don’t suffer.”
The next day, Theodore Harman revealed that he was going to be a sergeant in his company and was already earning some extra money by working as a barber.
“And now I let you know that I hain’t cook anymore. I resigned. They put me in for sergeant. I like it better. It hain’t quite so greasy and I am very busy every day. I am barber. I cut very many hair. I charge 5 cents apiece.
And now I let you know that we get our bounty today but I tell you this is fun for the fellows to get their money. But I won’t keep one dollar. I will send you five and send father 45. I can earn every day as much as I want for spending money with cutting hair.”
After waiting several weeks for their uniforms to arrive, Theodore Harman wrote on October 12, 1862, that the uniforms had finally come and that he was earning even more money by charging money to sew on epaulets.
“And now I must close. I am very sleepy. I didn’t sleep much in two nights and my hand hurts so bad. I sowed epaulets on the soldier’s coats. I got eight cents a piece. I earned 71 cents today.”
Soon after, the regiment traveled down to Virginia and was assigned to Franz Sigel’s brigade.
The Battle of Fredericksburg
While the 153rd Pennsylvania Infantry did not participate directly in the Battle of Fredericksburg, they were on their way there when the fighting occurred. On December 14, 1862, Theodore Harman wrote about being on the way to Fredericksburg and the large number of Union soldiers he encountered on the way.
“And now I must let you know that we had a very hard march and hain’t done marching yet. We have marched now for days through the mud and dirt till over our shoes. That was the hardest job that I ever had but this morning I feel good. I am ready for another march and I think we will march off very shortly. I thought we would take off already but we wait for our rations. They are all we just got two crackers and one pound of steak for one day and that was rare but the men ate it raw. But I can’t do that. I just threw my steak in the fire till it was roasted, then I ate it. I tell you, Louisa, soldiering is a hard life but I like it better than I did. I think we will be down in Fredericksburg tomorrow. Then we will have some fighting to do. But that is just what I like.
I seen more soldiers this morning than I ever seen [before]. They are all moving down to Fredericksburg. They’ve been marching through this place since this morning daylight but I think we will start pretty soon too and I think they are about 30 thousand of soldiers that camped here last night and they are all going down to Fredericksburg. And if we are all down, they are about three hundred thousand soldiers there.”
While the 153rd Pennsylvania was spared from the fighting, the 129th Pennsylvania was not. The brother of Theodore Harman’s wife served in the 129th Pennsylvania, and on December 20, 1862, Theodore Harman wrote to her about what he learned after visiting the regiment.
The first thing Theodore Harman reported was that her brother, Josiah Moyer, had been wounded.
“…I asked where Josiah was and then they told me that was wounded and was in the hospital. Then that broke my heart to hear such news but they said he was just slightly wounded. The doctor dressed the wound and took the ball out and then he felt better again. But the doctor said that it weren’t dangerous with him.”
After the assurance that her brother would be alright, Theodore Harman then shared more details about the battle.
“They say it was awful to see our men fall and the balls came just like hail and killed our men like flies. The loss [in] killed, wounded, and taken prisoner of that regiment was about one hundred and forty men and out of Company D was twelve wounded and two killed and four taken prisoner and a few missing.
But they told me that they have seen enough of fighting. They don’t want to see more of it. War is a bad thing to hear of but it is worse to see it. I think I have seen enough of it too. I don’t want to see more of it either. I am just seen enough of it if I only wouldn’t never see more of it. It is nothing but humbug and money machine. Our officers is too dumb to fight. They know how to take the men in the fight but they don’t know how to get them out. I think our loss is about ten thousand killed and wounded and the rebels is about twenty-five hundred killed and wounded. That’s what the rebel paper says.”
The modern estimates for Union losses are 1,284 killed, 9,600 wounded and 1,769 captured and missing. Confederate forces suffered about half as many casualties.
The Battle of Chancellorsville

On May 5, 1863, Theodore Harman wrote to his wife, Louisa, about the recent Battle of Chancellorsville.
“I again take the opportunity to address a few lines to let you know that I am safe so far. And further I let you know that we left our old camp on the 27th of April and marched down towards Kelley’s Ford and then we crossed the Rappahannock on the 28th at about midnight and then we laid down and slept till morning. And then we marched again and so we marched day and night till on the first of May the Rebels made an attack on us. We was in the woods and had formed a line of battle and the Rebs made a charge on us and we commenced to fire on them and fought about five minutes. And then the balls came just like a hail storm and then we got orders to retreat. And then the knapsacks flew and we run through the woods and the balls flew around our heads. I thought every minute one would hit me but thank God, I am safe.
And so they kept on fighting till about midnight and then on Sunday morning they commenced to fight again and so they fought most all day, but [by] then we wasn’t in [the fight] anymore. They fight every day along our line [at] the time I am writing this letter. They have [had] a pretty hard skirmishing but we [continue to] drive them back. I think the Rebels lost [a] great many more than we did. I hope we will lick them this time.
Our regiment didn’t lose very many. I don’t think that our company lost any killed but five wounded — namely Joseph Breidinger shot in the face, and Samuel Drach shot in the back, and Moses Warner shot in the leg, and George Howell shot in the neck and a horse ran over Israel Kocher but he hain’t hurt very bad. But there is several of our men missing — Lewis Clewell and some others — but then they will come to the regiment yet. And further I let you know that [brother] Peter is amongst the missing too but I think he will come to the regiment again.”
On May 10, 1863, Theodore Harman wrote another letter and revealed that his brother was still missing.
“Time seems very long and lonesome now. Since the battle was [fought], I feel quite lost being I don’t know where Peter is, but I hope he will come to the regiment yet. I don’t hope that he is killed or wounded but I think he sticks somewheres yet. Some told me that they seen him on this side of the river and Harry [Harrison] Gross [of Co. A] is lost too. But I seen Harry on our retreat and then he was alright yet. There is some twenty missing of Company A but perhaps they are taken prisoner. I feel very sorry for the boys but I hope we will see them yet.”
In another letter written on May 18, Theodore Harman revealed that his own survival in the battle was from being able to quickly retreat.
“I never thought I would come safe out of that fight [at Chancellorsville] but God and my legs spared me there. My intention wasn’t to run but I had no other way to get out but to run. And further I let you know that Peter is not here yet. The report is that they were taken prisoner but I am glad if it is true because Louisa [Peter’s wife], she troubles herself about him. I received a letter from her last night and she is in great trouble. But I wrote to her that she shouldn’t trouble herself about him because he is alright. Some of our men told me that he and Harry Gross and George Fritz was taken prisoner but I think we will find out more about it before long.”
Sadly, Theodore Harman got sick with typhoid fever in June, 1863 and died at Columbia College Hospital on June 29, 1863. His brother, Peter, was indeed captured at the Battle of Chancellorsville and was taken to Libby Prison until he was exchanged on May 30, 1863. Peter survived the war and lived until 1927.
We’d like to give a special thanks to William Griffing of Spared & Shared for his work in transcribing and sharing these letters.
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